You can not escape adversity. The adversity awaits you everywhere.
And everywhere you must have patience if you would have peace within and merit an eternal crown.
If you go through adversity willingly, it will lead you to the desired goal where there will be no suffering.
If you want to avoid adversity, you create a burden for yourself and increase the pain, though still you have to bear it.
Do you expect to escape what no mortal can ever avoid?
Even Jesus could not escape pain.
You can suffer less if you trust in the Lord, He will give you strength from heaven.
But if you rely upon yourself you will suffer much pain. The choice is yours.